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Embracing Rest: Reflections on the Gift of Unhurried Time
Life, especially in our fast-paced, demanding North American culture, often leaves little room for true rest. Looking back, if I could..
haidecounsellor
7 days ago3 min read
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Living Well in a Broken World: Survival Strategies for Heart Holders
We live in interesting times, and some days, I find myself carrying a gnawing feeling in my stomach. As someone who is passionate about...
haidecounsellor
Mar 245 min read
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Conversations Between Friends: International Women's Day 2025
Just in time for International Women's Day 2025, I had the privilege of hosting two of my dear friends on my podcast. Laura and Darice have
haidecounsellor
Mar 82 min read
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An Unconventional New Year's Greeting
As we head into 2025, our regular greeting is "Happy New Year!" A common phrase that wishes well & acknowledges the start of a new season.
haidecounsellor
Jan 13 min read
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'Tis the Season!
"Tis the season of expectations. Of gathering, gifts, family time and celebration. The chhallenge, when autism is part of one's landscape is
haidecounsellor
Dec 6, 20243 min read
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Living in the Shadow of Grief
People sometimes ask me if my blog has a specific focus or intent. My main intent is to walk alongside my readers, sharing my...
haidecounsellor
Oct 14, 20249 min read
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Brave
As children, we learn strategies to adapt to difficult situations and to keep ourselves safe. These strategies work.. until they don't..
haidecounsellor
Sep 11, 20245 min read
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Love, Loss, Pets
This blog post was originally planned to be about the bravery needed to feel and express emotions. That post will yet come at a later...
haidecounsellor
Aug 27, 20244 min read
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Assumptions: When A Hypothesis Runs Amok Without Proof
Sometimes things are not what they seem. My then good friend and I were heading to see a movie. We had been enjoying spending a lot of...
haidecounsellor
Aug 1, 20245 min read
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Empathy of Grief
Grief is one of those journeys none of us willingly chooses. Grief follows a loss. This can be a loss of someone we care about, someone...
haidecounsellor
Jul 5, 20246 min read
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A Different Point of View
How we see the world differs by where we're standing. Our elderly family dog, Oli, loves to go for walks. He particularly loves walks...
haidecounsellor
Jun 1, 20242 min read
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Mother's Day is Not Just a Hallmark Moment
Many days of celebration bring with it the potential of pain. Each of us brings our whole self to these days that are assumed to be days...
haidecounsellor
May 8, 20243 min read
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But What If I Cry?
“Dr. Kovitz looks at him over his notepad. Phil notices then the two boxes of tissues on the table. He wonders absently how many people...
haidecounsellor
Mar 17, 20244 min read
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Holding Regret Tenderly
“How to hold regret tenderly: I wish I would have done that differently, and, at the time I couldn’t.” ~ Syanna Ward It was a cozy winter...
haidecounsellor
Mar 8, 20245 min read
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"Curiosity Killed the Cat" and other Misnomers
Have you ever wondered where that expression comes from? As an immigrant child who learned English as a second language, I often miss the...
haidecounsellor
Feb 22, 20244 min read
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From Nothing to Something
The end of the year seems to lend itself well to a time of reflecting on what has been and what is to come. Yet research consistently...
haidecounsellor
Dec 31, 20234 min read
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The Importance of Stories
In his book "The Growing Season" Nelson Boschman writes: "When things are especially painful or difficult, and they've been that way a...
haidecounsellor
Dec 17, 20235 min read
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Body Memories and Hope: A Personal Reflection
Two weeks ago, my husband and I had the chance to spend two nights away in Victoria with good friends. We love spending time with these...
haidecounsellor
Nov 11, 20233 min read
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The Importance of Being Heard
I love the quote by Karen Salmansohn of NotSalmon.com. She states that: "Sometimes you just need to talk about something - not to get...
haidecounsellor
Oct 25, 20233 min read
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Lower Mainland, BC: Support Through Current Events in Gaza
Thanks to a fellow counsellor who has put together this list of resources for those impacted and struggling with the current events in...
haidecounsellor
Oct 19, 20231 min read
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